{"id":2479,"date":"2016-04-04T14:44:34","date_gmt":"2016-04-04T11:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jedi-kids.ro\/?p=2479"},"modified":"2018-10-19T10:18:56","modified_gmt":"2018-10-19T10:18:56","slug":"succes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/ro\/succes\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce depinde succesul ?"},"content":{"rendered":"

De cate ori ti s-a spus, sau ai spus partenerului \u00a0tau de viata: \u201cNu ti-ai strans masa\u201d , \u201cNu ai dus gunoiul\u201d, \u00a0\u201cToate hainele tale sunt imprastiate prin casa \u201d… De cate ai spus copilului \u00a0tau:\u00a0 \u201cTi-ai murdarit hainele\u201d, \u00a0\u201cNu manca cu mana, foloseste furculita\u201d, \u201cNu ti-ai terminat temele\u201d … De cate ori le-ai spus parintilor tai: “Sunt ocupata, nu am timp sa vorbesc acum”, “Ti-am mai spus asta de 1oo de ori”… De cate ori spui colaboratorilor tai: “Nu ai livrat la timp”, “Calitatea e slaba”…<\/p>\n

Probabil ca zilnic spunem si auzim astfel de replici. Oare in acelasi fel procedam si cu mesajele pozitive ? Spunem la fel de des partenerului: “Multumesc ca ai facut cumparaturile”, “Ma bucur ca ai spalat masina”, “Ce bine arata curtea curata!”… Cat de des spunem copilului: “Ma bucur ca existi”, “\u00cemi faci viata mai frumoasa”, “Ce bine m-am simtit cand ne-am jucat impreuna”… Cat de des spunem parintilor: “Iti multumesc ca m-ai crescut”, “Ma bucur ca m-ai sunat”, “M-as bucura sa te vad, sa petrecem timp impreuna”….<\/p>\n

Din pacate, de cele multe ori ne bazam pe\u00a0vechea zicala: \u201eNo feedback is good feedback\u201c! (Daca nu spun nimic, inseamna ca totul merge bine).<\/p>\n

Studiile arata ca rata dintre interactiunile negative si cele pozitive definesc succesul intr-o\u00a0colaborare: fie ea cu partenerul,\u00a0cu copilul, cu parintii sau chiar cu subalternii. Pentru o colaborare de success rata dintre intearctiunile negative si cele pozitive este 1:5 !!!<\/p>\n

O rata 1:2 (o interactiune negativa vs 2 interactiuni pozitive), defineste o colaborare medie. Se vede clar ca impactul unui mesaj negativ este mai mare decat al unui pozitiv.
\nO rata 1:1 (un mesaj negativ la un mesaj pozitiv) definesc un esec.<\/p>\n

Asa arata studiile publicate pe Harvard Business Review:<\/p>\n

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\nIn concluzie:\u00a0Nu uitati sa transmiteti mesajele pozitive de cate ori aveti ocazia, in orice situatie va aflati ! Cate mesaje pozitive ati dat azi ?<\/p>\n

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De cate ori ti s-a spus, sau ai spus partenerului \u00a0tau de viata: \u201cNu ti-ai strans masa\u201d , \u201cNu ai dus gunoiul\u201d, \u00a0\u201cToate hainele tale sunt imprastiate prin casa \u201d… […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4622,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[36],"class_list":["post-2479","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-educatie","tag-parenting"],"yoast_head":"\nDe ce depinde succesul ? - Jedi Kids<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/ro\/succes\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"De ce depinde succesul ? - Jedi Kids\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"De cate ori ti s-a spus, sau ai spus partenerului \u00a0tau de viata: \u201cNu ti-ai strans masa\u201d , \u201cNu ai dus gunoiul\u201d, \u00a0\u201cToate hainele tale sunt imprastiate prin casa \u201d… […]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/ro\/succes\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Jedi Kids\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2016-04-04T11:44:34+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2018-10-19T10:18:56+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/child-fly-creative-arts.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"900\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"600\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Ms. N.\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"http:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/#website\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/\",\"name\":\"Jedi Kids\",\"description\":\"\u00een\u021belepciunea copiilor\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"http:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/ro\/succes\/#primaryimage\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/child-fly-creative-arts.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/child-fly-creative-arts.jpg\",\"width\":900,\"height\":600},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/ro\/succes\/#webpage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/jedikids.ro\/site\/ro\/succes\/\",\"name\":\"De ce depinde succesul ? 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